Asceticism is the Way to be Loved - II

The Righteous Follow the Way of the ProphetsThe righteous follow the way of the Prophet  as he was the model example. ‘Ali  said, “All goodness is for those who are ascetic in this worldly life and those who incline to the Hereafter. They are those who took the land as their rug, its dust as their mattress, its water as their perfume, the Quran as their slogan, and supplication as their garment. They completely renounced the worldly life.”Abu Ad-Dardaa’  wrote a letter to some of his friends, saying, “I advise you to fear Allaah, to be ascetic in this worldly life, and to desire what is with Allaah. If you do so, Allaah will love you for your desire for what is with Him, and people will love you for leaving their worldly lives for them. As-Salaamu Alaykum.”‘Urwah ibn Az-Zubayr  reported that the Mother of the Believers, ‘Aa’ishah once received eighty thousand Dirhams from Mu‘aawiyah  and by that evening she did not have even a single Dirham left. Her maid said to her, “Should you not have bought a Dirham’s worth of meat for us?” She replied, “If you had reminded me, I would have done.”Ibn Mas‘ood  said, “The worldly life is the home of those who have no home and the wealth of those who have no wealth. The one who has no knowledge accumulates in it.”When ‘Umar  reached Ash-Shaam (greater Syria), his soldiers met him while he was wearing a lower garment, a pair of leather socks and a turban. He was pulling along his riding animal and walking in puddles. The soldiers said to him, “O commander of the believers, Will the soldiers and patriarchs of Ash-Shaam meet you while you are in this state?” He replied, “We are people whom Allaah has honored by Islam, so we will not seek honor in anything else.”A man visited Abu Tharr  and looked around at his house and said, “O Abu Tharr, I do not see any belongings or furniture in your house!” He replied, “We have another house [i.e., his house in Paradise] to which we send our good belongings.” He added, “The owner of the house [i.e., Allaah] will not leave us in this house.”‘Amr ibn Al-‘Aas  said in a sermon that he delivered in Egypt, “What a huge difference there is between your way and the guidance of your Prophet ! He was the most ascetic of people in this worldly life while you are the most inclining of people towards it.”‘Ali  said, “I married Faatimah while we had no bedding but the skin of a ram that we would sleep on at night and place the fodder for the camel on it during the day. I had no one to serve me but her, and she would get so exhausted that her forelock would fall on the edge of the bowl when she kneaded.”When Mu‘aath ibn Jabal  was about to die, he said, “O Allaah, You know that I did not love this worldly life and longevity in it for the sake of digging rivers or planting trees [i.e., the sustenance in this worldly life]. Rather, [I wanted it] for the sake of fasting during the day, performing voluntary prayers at night, and attending the assemblies of remembering Allaah, despite them being crowded.”Imaam Ahmad ibn Hanbal  mentioned that the best person from the generation that succeeded that of the Companions of the Prophet  in terms of knowledge was Sa‘eed ibn Al-Musayyib  but the finest in general was ’Uways Al-Qarni . ’Uways  would say, “Take death as a pillow when you go to sleep and put it before your eyes when you are awake.”Maalik ibn Dinaar  said, “A person intends to marry the most beautiful woman in the district, so she says to him. ‘I want garments made of wool’, then she takes away his religion.”Many of the righteous predecessors would refuse to take lawful money that was offered to them and would say, “We will not take it lest it ruins our religion.”Hammaad ibn Salamah  would open his shop, and if he earned just two Dirhams, he would close it.Sa‘eed ibn Al-Musayyib  would trade in oil, and after his death he left four hundred Dinaars, saying, “I left them to protect my honor and religion.”Sufyaan Ath-Thawri  said, “Asceticism in this worldly life is to not have the hope of a long life, rather it is to eat rough food or wear rough clothes.”Ash-Shaafi‘i  also dispraised this worldly life and being attached to it.Abu Sulaymaan Ad-Daaraani  would say, “All that distracts you from Allaah The Almighty, whether family, wealth or children, is a misfortune.”People Far Better than Us were Deprived of the Pleasures of this Worldly LifeIt is enough to know that being ascetic is a part of taking the Prophet  and his companions as examples. This act is perfect reliance upon Allaah The Almighty and instills contentment in the heart, which in turn leads to the comfort of this worldly life and the happiness of the Hereafter. The ascetic person is loved by Allaah The Almighty and by other people. Therefore, if you have possessions, praise Allaah The Almighty and do not let your heart be attached to the worldly life. Likewise, if you are poor, be patient, for people who were better than you were deprived of the pleasures of this worldly life. Our Prophet  would sleep on a mat such that its marks appeared on his body, and he died while there was no provision on the shelf of ‘Aa’ishah except a handful of barley that she would eat from. If one were to enter the rooms of his wives, his head would touch the ceiling. ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab  the caliph of the Muslims, once delivered a sermon wearing a garment that had twelve patches.These people were not deprived of the pleasures of this worldly life because of their abasement in the sight of Allaah The Almighty, rather because of the abasement of the worldly life in His sight, which does not even equal the weight of a wing of a mosquito; and the two voluntary units of prayer before Fajr prayer are better than this worldly life and what it contains. In order for one not to despair over what has eluded him, he should not exult in pride over what Allaah The Almighty has given him. The believer does not become disappointed over being disgraced in it nor compete with others over its glory, as he has his own concern and they have other concerns.
Be the slave of Allaah The Almighty at times of hardship and ease, and at times of activity and suffering. Whether the worldly life approaches you or turns away from you, its approaching is refraining and its turning away is approaching. The basic rule is that it approaches you with what you dislike, and when it approaches you with what you like, this is an exception.